HOW TO GIVE A PROSTATE MASSAGE
Before you do anything, the recipient should have a bowel movement (if necessary) and repeat anal douching (enemas) until the water comes out clear. Then wash, of course. Be sure to use a lot of thick, water-based lubrication, like KY Jelly. The giver should not have long or sharp fingernails—use medical gloves if that’s an issue. Don’t rub the prostate any harder than you would rub your own eyeball; you don’t want to cause injury. Sometimes it feels better to rub around the circumference of the organ rather than directly on it. It is also sometimes better simply to move the finger in and out of the anus, which stimulates the whole area and the prostate indirectly. The recipient should verbalize what feels best at any given moment.